Judy left a comment the other day, which we to share here:
Me and my HOH we’re both wanting this lifestyle but didn’t know how the other felt about it. We knew something felt wrong and we needed to fix it. I found a article on Facebook and read it to him and his response was not what I was expecting. I was prepared to hear no a few times as the article said might happen but instead I heard “I’ve been wanting this too and wasn’t sure how to bring it up to you without thinking you might get upset” and we just felt that GOD led us to live this lifestyle without shame from each other and 100% acceptance of the lifestyle feom each other. It has truly changed our marriage.
And OMG yes the spark is a roaring fire now. We have been married for 10 1/2 yes so we are not newly Weds. I truly recommend this lifestyle to anyone thinking about it. But know that the road is a tough one. It isn’t always easy for me to keep my mouth shut and it wasn’t easy for him to take on all the responsibility that I once didn’t want to hand over but we are working through it and it’s definitely made us both change for the better.